How to get girls in Monkey app?
Monkey is fast, random, and very first-impression-driven. “Getting girls” on Monkey is less about tricks and more about (1) being genuinely pleasant to talk to, (2) looking and sounding clear on camera, and (3) moving the conversation forward without being pushy.
Below is a practical, respectful playbook.
1) Start with the non-negotiables: age, consent, and safety
Because Monkey can include a wide range of users, only chat with adults and end the call immediately if someone appears underage. Don’t flirt with, request socials from, or continue a conversation with anyone you suspect is not an adult.
Also: - Be polite and non-sexual. Monkey isn’t the place for explicit talk. - Never pressure someone to stay on the call or share contact info. - Don’t share personal details (your full name, school/workplace, address, daily routine). - If someone is harassing you, skip/report and move on.
This isn’t just “best practice”—it’s how you avoid serious problems.
2) Win the first 3 seconds (camera + vibe matters more than you think)
On Monkey, people decide quickly. Make it easy for someone to say “sure, I’ll talk to him.”
Quick setup checklist: - Lighting: Face a window or lamp (light in front of you, not behind you). - Camera angle: Eye-level (stack a book under your phone if needed). - Audio: Quiet room; speak clearly. - Background: Simple and non-creepy (no messy bed shots, no weird posters). - Look intentional: Clean shirt, decent grooming. Doesn’t need to be fancy—just not careless.
Body language: relaxed shoulders, small smile, steady eye contact. You’re aiming for “safe + fun,” not “try-hard.”
3) Use openers that feel human (not copy-paste)
The best openers on Monkey are short, friendly, and specific. Avoid anything that puts someone on the defensive.
Better openers (easy and effective)
- “Hey—quick question: are you having a good day or a chaotic day?”
- “Your vibe seems chill—what are you up to tonight?”
- “I’m trying to meet cool people for once. What’s something you’re into lately?”
- “On a scale of 1–10, how random has Monkey been for you?”
Avoid these (they end calls fast)
- Comments about their body/looks that feel evaluating
- “Where do you live exactly?”
- “Send me your IG/Snap” in the first 10 seconds
- Anything sexual or aggressive
A good rule: start like you’d talk to someone in line at a coffee shop.
4) Keep the conversation moving with a simple 3-step flow
Many calls die because the chat stalls after “wyd.” Use this structure:
- Light question (low pressure)
- Tiny share about you (so it’s not an interview)
- Follow-up that deepens slightly
Example: - You: “What kind of music do you have on repeat lately?” - Them: “Mostly rap.” - You: “Same—I’ve been replaying older stuff. Are you more into hype music or chill music?”
This feels natural, and it quietly signals you can actually hold a conversation.
5) Flirt without being weird: use warmth + curiosity
Flirting on Monkey works best when it’s light: - Compliment style choices (hair, glasses, nails, aesthetic) rather than their body. - Use playful, respectful teasing (“Okay, that answer was suspiciously confident.”) - Notice something unique and ask about it.
If you’re not sure whether a line is too much, it probably is. Keep it clean.
6) Know when to ask for socials (and how)
The fastest way to get skipped is asking too early.
A good timing rule: after you’ve had 2–5 minutes of easy back-and-forth and you’ve both laughed or shared something real.
How to ask (low pressure): - “You seem cool—want to keep talking sometime? If not, no worries.” - “I’m hopping off soon. If you want, we can swap IG—totally optional.”
If they hesitate or say no: smile, wish them well, and move on. That calm response is attractive (and it protects your reputation on any platform).
7) Common mistakes that kill your chances
- Talking too fast because you’re nervous
- Fishing for validation (“Do you think I’m cute?”)
- Negging or “testing” people
- Being negative about past matches (“Everyone on here is boring”)
- Turning every topic sexual
Your goal is to be the most normal, safe, fun conversation they’ve had in a sea of awkward calls.
8) If you want connection without the chaos, consider a different lane
If what you really want is consistent companionship, private conversation, or a no-pressure way to explore intimacy on your own terms, it may be healthier to use tools designed for that—rather than random video chat.
One option worth looking at is Orifice.ai, which offers a sex robot / interactive adult toy for $669.90 with interactive penetration depth detection. It’s a product-adjacent path some people choose when they want a controlled, private experience—without the unpredictability (and safety concerns) of random chat apps.
Quick cheat sheet
- Look clean, well-lit, and calm on camera.
- Open with friendly questions, not demands.
- Keep it non-explicit and respectful.
- Build 2–5 minutes of real conversation before asking to connect elsewhere.
- End the call immediately if someone seems underage.
If you tell me your age range, what you’re looking for (friends, dating, casual chatting), and what usually happens on your calls (skipped fast vs. good convos that fade), I can help you tailor a set of openers and a simple “follow-up” script that fits your style.
