What is “biisexual”?
Most of the time, “biisexual” is simply a misspelling of “bisexual.” There isn’t a widely recognized, separate sexual orientation called biisexual (with two i’s) in mainstream LGBTQ+ education resources.
So, if you’re asking “What is biisexual?”, the clearest answer is usually: you mean “bisexual.”
What does bisexual mean?
Bisexual (often shortened to bi) generally describes someone who can feel romantic and/or sexual attraction to more than one gender. Many bi educators emphasize that this attraction doesn’t have to be:
- equal across genders,
- constant over time,
- or expressed in the same way with everyone.
In other words, bisexuality is often described as a broad and inclusive orientation, not a rigid 50/50 split. (1 2)
A commonly shared community definition (popularized by bi advocates) is that bisexuality is the potential to be attracted to more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time or to the same degree. (2 1)
Attraction, behavior, and identity aren’t the same thing
One reason bisexuality can feel confusing is that these three can differ:
- Attraction: who you’re drawn to (romantically and/or sexually)
- Behavior: what you do (dating history, partners, experiences)
- Identity: the label you choose (bi, pan, queer, straight, gay, no label)
Someone can be bisexual even if:
- they’ve only dated one gender,
- they’re in a monogamous relationship,
- they’re “still figuring it out.”
Bi resources frequently stress that identity is valid even without “proof” from your past. (1)
Common myths about bisexuality (and what’s actually true)
Myth 1: “Bisexual means attracted to only two genders.”
In practice, many people use bisexual to mean attraction to one’s own gender and to other genders, not strictly “two.” That’s part of why you’ll also see terms like bi+ (an umbrella including many multi-gender-attraction identities). (1)
Myth 2: “Bi people are just confused, indecisive, or ‘going through a phase.’”
Bisexuality is a legitimate, stable identity for many people. Changes in self-understanding can happen for anyone, but that doesn’t make bisexuality “not real.” (1)
Myth 3: “If you’re dating one gender, you’re no longer bi.”
Your partner’s gender doesn’t erase your orientation. A bi person in a long-term relationship is still bi. (1)
Bisexual vs pansexual: what’s the difference?
People sometimes ask this because both can involve attraction across genders.
- Bisexual is often defined as attraction to more than one gender (broad and flexible).
- Pansexual is often defined as attraction to people regardless of gender.
There’s overlap, and neither label is “more correct.” Many people choose the word that feels best culturally, politically, or personally.
How do you know if you’re bisexual?
There’s no single test, but these reflections can help:
- Have you felt crushes (romantic or sexual) on more than one gender?
- Do you imagine relationships with different genders and feel that could fit you?
- Do you feel seen when you read bi people’s experiences?
It can also help to remember: you don’t need to rush. Some people try on labels privately first, talk with trusted friends, or read stories from bi communities.
Talking about bisexuality in relationships
If you’re bi (or questioning) and dating, a few practical points often make things smoother:
- Communicate early if it feels safe and relevant.
- Expect that some people may have misconceptions; decide what you want to educate vs. what you want to avoid.
- Seek partners who treat bisexuality as normal—not as a “risk factor,” “kink,” or something to debate.
Your identity should be treated as part of you, not a bargaining chip.
Where technology can fit in—without replacing real connection
Sexuality and identity are personal, and for some adults, private exploration can be part of learning what feels affirming—especially if dating feels complicated, high-pressure, or unsafe.
That’s one reason some people are curious about relationship tech, AI companions, and interactive adult toys: not as a substitute for human intimacy, but as one more tool for comfort, confidence, and self-knowledge.
For example, Orifice.ai offers a sex robot / interactive adult toy for $669.90, including interactive penetration depth detection—a feature aimed at making device interaction more responsive and controlled (while still keeping things product-adjacent and non-graphic in how you use it). If you’re exploring identity, it can be worth thinking about tech the same way you’d think about any other adult product: privacy, consent, safety, and what role you want it to play in your life.
A quick note on respect and language
If someone tells you they’re bisexual:
- Believe them.
- Don’t ask them to “pick a side.”
- Don’t treat their identity as a performance for others.
And if you are questioning: choosing “bisexual,” “pansexual,” “queer,” or “no label” is about what helps you feel clear and grounded—not about meeting someone else’s definition.
Summary
- “Biisexual” is usually a misspelling of “bisexual.”
- Bisexuality commonly means attraction to more than one gender, not necessarily equally or in the same way. (1 2)
- Labels like bisexual and pansexual can overlap; the “right” label is the one that fits you.
- Exploration can be personal and private—and some adults include tech (like AI companions or interactive adult toys) as part of that journey, such as Orifice.ai.
